The Travails of a Christian Bachelorette

…Is there anything too hard for a song? It was a serious bathroom emergency situation! The bathroom door was locked.🚻😱 Someone else was inside. A minute felt like eternity as I waited for my turn. I tried to pace it out, rebuking myself: “Why do I always wait till the very last minute!?” My stomach … Continue reading This is my fight song…

I've had many "what if" moments. This was no small one ... So, the reason I have been silent the past months is because I’ve been working on my big announcement. Are you ready? Drum roll please 🥁🥁🥁…. “Hurray! I’m getting married!” Okay, wouldn’t it be great if that were true?😊😊😊 That way, all my loved … Continue reading What if…? (part 1)

… Thankfully, God is not confused. While my dream of walking down the Aisle someday has remained unchanged since I was a little girl, and sometimes felt urgent, I cannot say the same of my dream husband. My image of him has evolved significantly. It's been shaped and reshaped by knowledge, experience, age, fear, harsh … Continue reading My Future Husband Goals…

… For what shall it profit a woman if a man took forever to get over her? It’s been almost two years since that unrehearsed phone conversation on December 18th. In less than thirty minutes, we dressed our dream of a possible shared lifelong future in immaculate white, put it a beautiful casket and laid … Continue reading He moved on … “TOO FAST?”

Dear friends,I am so thrilled to present the very first guest post on my blog. Authored by Godfred Amankwah in response to "Mr. Wrong." Enjoy Once wronged, always right? “Men are trash!” This was the hot topic of discussion at the beauty salon that morning as the sages, scorned women, passionately vented their bitter experiences with … Continue reading Mrs Right, or is she?

Oh weddings! They have a way of testing a Single’s contentment. Here’s a modified version of ten New Testament Bible stories, featuring different types of singles at wedding ceremonies or upon invitation. Have fun! 😊 1. Mary the mother of Jesus: “Oh No! We’re running out of drinks. Here’s some money. Quick, dash to the … Continue reading The Parable of Ten Singles at a Wedding (Part 1)

“Hey Beautiful, I hope you had a good night. I will stop by your office on my way to work this morning – just to admire you and wish you a good day. I love you so much and can no longer resist your charm. See you soon. Kisses 💋❤️”  This is one in a … Continue reading Mr Wrong…

If you’ve ever dreamt about getting married, you probably have picked a wedding song too…😊 and if you’re married, most assuredly, you remember your wedding song. January 20, 2009. A memory of over ten years, yet still alive and fresh. I’m pretty sure I saw the moon, the sun and the stars standing still, or … Continue reading My Wedding Song…

Some of the harshest allegations are the ones we impose on ourselves. Being falsely accused is nothing compared to accusing ourselves falsely. My fault I was five years old. My father left home one evening and never came back. No, he didn’t die. He just moved on, eventually into another marriage. “It’s my fault. It’s … Continue reading I’ve got me all wrong